HTC Wildfire or Blackberry Curve 9300? HELP!?

Which is better HTC Wildfire or Blackberry Curve 3G?. I love both phones and all my friends at school have the Blackberry and all use the special app called BBM - which the HTC dosen`t have. But I love the HTC as well as I quite like touch screen phones and I like the 5 mega pixel camera which the Blackberry dosen`t have only 2 mega pixel... HELP! By the way both phones are exactly the same money...